Monday, 31 July 2017

It Is Not Your Job, It’s You: The Real Reasons You Are Unhappy At Work

At one point or the other, you must have felt bored at the job. The excitement for work seems to have lost somewhere. No matter how perfect the job is or how great the boss is, you feel discontent and always think of looking for another option.  

But you will be shocked to know that every time it is not your job that’s the problem; rather, it’s you. Though it is easy to blame the situations outside for dissatisfaction at the job, but sometimes the problem lies within you. In such a situation, only an honest introspection can help you know why you feel unhappy at work and how to make your job interesting.

Once you accept that it’s not your job, it’s you that’s making you unhappy at work half the problems will be solved. Here are a few signs to prove that it’s you making things difficult for yourself.

You are too sensitive

Bosses are always there to give their suggestion and correct your errors. Now switching the job every now and then while calling bosses too rude is actually your problem, not boss’s. Instead of taking criticism too personally, you should try changing your mindset.

You don’t interact with people

Do you always feel that you are always assigned different tasks from co-workers? This will continue to happen until you directly approach your boss and discuss the things clearly. Ask your boss why you are always given A, B and C tasks when other members in the team get X, Y and Z tasks.

Speaking about the problem is better than blaming others and hampering your work.

You don’t accept mistakes

No one is perfect in this world. Every one of us makes mistakes, which we all need to accept. You won’t be able to correct yourself until you accept your fault. So instead of being defensive, think about solving the problem. Soon you will find yourself doing great at the job.

You don’t give time to the things to happen

 In an organization with a different department and a hierarchy for every task, it takes some time to implement even a simple idea. But you want your unique idea to be implemented overnight and if it doesn’t happen you feel demotivated at the job.

Instead of feeling bad, you should be happy that at least your views were given a chance. Think about the organization where employees don’t even get an opportunity to present their ideas.

No matter what, you should never blame your job for your unhappiness until you properly analyze the situation. When it comes to career and growth, you shouldn’t just look at one aspect. Take ownership of things and find the real reason behind your displeasure at work.

Monday, 24 April 2017

An Incomplete Love Story Of A #HalfGirlfriend? Share Yours!


“If the feelings are mutual, the effort will be equal.”


This is the mantra for success of any relationship; especially when it is of a boyfriend and a girlfriend. They both need to have mutual feelings for each other else it becomes a ‘half relationship’. But what happens when the love story is one sided.

What if the other person is just playing with your feelings because he knows that he is complete world for someone?

I haven’t personally gone through this but have closely seen one of my friends going through such relationship. As this is story of my friend, respecting their privacy I will not use their real names. Rather, I will use imaginary names:

Priya was deeply in love with a Anmol but for him it was just “Dost se Zyaada, Girlfriend/Boyfriend se kam”.


It was during college days, when the craze and charm for love is at peak. Boys and girls meet, they spend time together and fall into love. Priya haa a crush on Anmol and with involvement of some friends started talking to him. Priya was from those extra ordinary students who always top in the class. So Anmol took advantage of it and started chatting with her just to get her help in exams and assignments.

The long chats took their relationship from friendship to love and the goody-goody things started happening. Dates, movies, long drives and gifts, everything was great for a few months.

But everything hasn’t been made for a happy ending. Everything was great for a few weeks, but suddenly things changed. And the culprit was social media. A few messages here and there and problems started arising, which couldn’t be solved ever.

Later, Priya also realized that Anmol was just passing time and was playing with her feelings for his personal benefit. From his habits to family background and relationship, he lied about each and everything. Initially she tried hard to save her drowning relationship, but ultimately she gave up and planned to move on in her life.



Though a broken love is painful and upsetting, but if it is with a wrong person, it is better to separate ways. This is what Priya did and I would say it was for good as now she has found her true love who completes her.

The upcoming movie “Half Girlfriend” wonderfully captures this reality of life. Though this is just a movie, there are many people in real life who have got stuck in such relationships where they just become “Dost se Zyaada, Girlfriend/Boyfriend se kam”. They get stuck in one sided relationships and end-up hurting themselves.

You can catch movie’s trailer here:



 “I am sharing a Half relationship story at BlogAdda in association with #HalfGirlfriend” 

Wednesday, 11 January 2017

How Serein Offers a Life of Malabar Hill in Thane?

If you have always dreamt of owning a home in Malabar Hill, but couldn’t realize this dream, you have got the opportunity now with Serein.

This is a residential project located in the posh location of Thane and offers a lifestyle that people of Malabar Hill enjoy and you crave for. Located on Pokhran Road 2, Serein is the new center of luxury with all the advanced amenities a contemporary home buyer wishes to have in his home.

There are various locational based and other features that make Serein Malabar Hill of Thane such as smooth connectivity, lush greens, proximity to the public utilities and entertainment hub.

Tata Housing has thoughtfully selected the location for the project. Blessed with the Upvan Lake and Sanjay Gandhi National Park in close proximity, it makes a perfect abode for those who love to enjoy the elements of nature like greenery, hill views and chirping of birds. By owning a home here, you don't need to visit Malabar Hill on weekends for a picnic. 


If you are still thinking how Serein is Malabar Hill of thane, here goes the list:

Proximity to well-developed social infrastructure: Whether you are looking for a good school for your child or want a home in proximity to retail stores, the project has smooth connectivity to all.

Easy transportation: The project has a smooth road, rail and bus connectivity for those who prefer to travel by public transport. Eastern Express Highway, Ghodbunder road, and Thane-Belapur road are close to the project to help you reach different destinations quickly.

Life in a smart city: Thane has been recently included in the list of Smart Cities of India, which ensures round-the-clock water and power supply, complete safety and security of the residents and proper hygiene with the solid waste management system. 



About Serein

Serein is the one-of-its-kinds project developed by Tata Housing. Based on the wellness theme, the residential project offers a lifestyle for the nature lovers. Be it the luxury of living in a posh flat or enjoying the nature's elements with various activity spaces, everything is at your disposal at Serein. The builder in association with innovative minds offers homes that make a legacy and help you realize the dream of owning a lavish abode at a safe and secure location.

Vitamin C-infused shower, EMF shield, RO filter in kitchen, air purifier in living room, organic farm, sand pit, park, pet park, lotus pond, forest boardwalk, skating area and nature trail are some of the features offered to match the Wellness theme and to help the residents live a happy and healthy life.




Come and live amidst affluence at Tata Housing's benchmark project Serein.